i blogged. you commented:Hmm.. jus a few cents' worth from me..
Su Teck
2 cases:
1st case: If he's generically (i.e. inborn) gay, then i think there's not much of a choice. Den i believe that he himself doesnt want to be gay in the 1st place, but his sexual construct forces him to be one. I guess u'll jus hafta face this issue more openly and accept naturally who he is.
2nd case: If he CHOOSES to be a gay, then maybe u can dissuade him during casual conversations when u happen to touch on this topic. U can *casually comment* some discouraging facts like, "2 guys cannot have a baby, and it's a joy to have babies" etc. Lead him to ponder over the joy that he'll forego wif a male partner. Hafta do it tactfully, since it's sensitive.
Jus suggestions. hee.. =)
2:04 AM
sDiEnDo said...
I'm sorry, but no one is born gay. It is a choice to be gay. I have a fact book on homosexuals. remind me to pass it to you, yah? It takes inner conviction.. :)
5:54 PM
Anonymous said...
No one is born gay. -period-. Like freedom fighters, the "born gay" theory is the compromise of standard for the acceptance of the world. The world wants to hear what they want to hear. It is in the mind. If you keep thinking you are gay, you will be. Your upbringing plays a big part too. If the mum or dad is a bi, the likelyhood of the child being a bi is very high. Monkey see Monkey do. "Generation curses" like that is passed down from one generation to another... but God is there to deliver us from the curses through Jesus. If we accept his saving grace and absolute power over darkness.
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Romans 1:18-32
The wrath of God is being revealed from heaven against all the godlessness and wickedness of men who suppress the truth by their wickedness, since what may be known about God is plain to them, because God has made it plain to them. For since the creation of the world God's invisible qualities–his eternal power and divine nature–have been clearly seen, being understood from what has been made, so that men are without excuse.
For although they knew God, they neither glorified him as God nor gave thanks to him, but their thinking became futile and their foolish hearts were darkened. Although they claimed to be wise, they became fools and exchanged the glory of the immortal God for images made to look like mortal man and birds and animals and reptiles.
Therefore God gave them over in the sinful desires of their hearts to sexual impurity for the degrading of their bodies with one another. They exchanged the truth of God for a lie, and worshiped and served created things rather than the Creator–who is forever praised. Amen.
Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural relations for unnatural ones. In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed indecent acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their perversion.
Furthermore, since they did not think it worthwhile to retain the knowledge of God, he gave them over to a depraved mind, to do what ought not to be done. They have become filled with every kind of wickedness, evil, greed and depravity. They are full of envy, murder, strife, deceit and malice. They are gossips, slanderers, Godhaters, insolent, arrogant and boastful; they invent ways of doing evil; they disobey their parents; they are senseless, faithless, heartless, ruthless. Although they know God's righteous decree that those who do such things deserve death, they not only continue to do these very things but also approve of those who practice them.
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Giving people over to their own sins is one of God's divine judgement.
Number one - love him like how you would to your closest of friends. Homosexuals are normal people like you and me, worthy for chirst to die for.
Pray that he will be able to accept God. Then the love for his holy God will encourage him to turn from his ways.
Phew - This a very long comment!!!
-matt
8:56 PM
Anonymous said...
Gays and lesbians are cool! at least, they're not hypocritical abt their likings. haha. c'mon manz, they're just humans with exotic preferences. treat them like normal humans. dun treat them like some sort of aliens visiting Mother Earth.
Juz becaz they dun fit into society norms, that doesnt mean they're not humans. stop using tainted glasses to view them manz!
It's just a matter of preferences, relax everyone. if u like soy bean and majority likes jelly beans, am i suppose to dissuade u and persuade u to join the jelly bean club?!
~miruku~
3:36 AM
PS: What's your view?
